Beth Marie LaBarr Baker is the beloved mother of Whitney, Steven, Sidney and
Adrian; mother-in-law to Carolyn, Marianne, Susan and Kevin; grandmother to
thirteen wonderful young adults--a true Baker's dozen--and great grandmother to
eighteen little ones. She is also survived by her brother Harry A La Barr, Jr.,
and her sister Jean Miner. She passed away on Thursday, March 13, 2008, and is
now reunited with our father, Maurice Frank Baker; her parents, Harry and
Blanche LaBarr; her sister, Lois, and two children lost in childbirth.
Mom was born on her grandparent's homestead southeast of Clarion on January 29,
1918. After graduating from high school where she played first chair violin in
the school orchestra, she studied home economics at Iowa State University where
she met our dad. She taught in a country school near Dows for a year before
marrying our dad on August 12, 1938. The WWII years were difficult as she had
two small boys to take care of while our dad served as a Lieutenant J.G. in the
Navy in the Pacific. Following the war they lived in Missouri and Kansas with
their family that now included three active young boys. They moved to Lawrence,
Kansas, in 1950 where our dad received his doctorate in zoology. In 1952, our
family grew one more time with the birth of a daughter.
In addition to being a loving and caring wife and mother, Mom found time to
develop her artistic talents in silversmithing and millinery. Later she studied
various art media, including watercolor, oil, and pen and ink and has gifted all
of our lives with many beautiful paintings by which she will be remembered.
Our mother's greatest gifts to her family and friends were those of calm and
steadfast love, a low-key, subtle sense of humor, a strong faith in God, a
reverence for the natural world, a love of art and music, and not the least of
which, a love for cats.
She and dad are looking down from heaven with the knowledge that their children
will continue to uphold the principles they imparted to us. Mom, we miss you but
are so happy that you are in a better place where "there will be no more death
or sorrow or crying or pain."