Shirley Eyler Baker was born in Clarion, Iowa on August 4, 1930. She was the
only child of Caroline Lewis and John (Jack) Henry Eyler. Shirley's father Jack
was the founder and owner of the Eyler Funeral Home that served the town of
Clarion and its surrounding areas for over 30 years. Living in a funeral home
for many years taught her to be fearless in the face of death!
As a cheerleader and drum major at Clarion High School, she set her collegiate
sights on Drake University in Des Moines. During the summer of 1948, Shirley
traveled to Mason City where she was crowned Queen of the North Iowa Band
Festival by Meredith Willson who inspired and wrote the Tony Award winning Best
Musical production of "The Music Man"! The coronation by Mr. Willson was one of
best memories of her life.
Shirley was also Homecoming Queen at Drake University in the fall of 1951. She
liked to joke that the Des Moines Register headline read "Queen Wins on Third
Try" when she finally wore the crown in her senior year!
Following graduation from Drake in 1952, Shirley decided against a career in
teaching and instead went to Chicago, to work as a stewardess for United
Airlines. She transferred to Denver a few years later, where she met and married
Ed Baker. They remained in Denver to raise their three children, Peter, John and
Amy.
During her time as a wife and mother, she became involved in Planned Parenthood
and the Botanic Gardens. Of course, she was the predecessor to "soccer mom."
Over the years, she continued to foster her love for music, ultimately joining
the Denver Concert Band and several recorder groups. She loved to play the piano
during Christmas so the family could belt out carols in perfect disharmony! She
learned to play tennis in her 40s and continued to play well into her 70's with
her good buddies.
Bridge was a big part of her life as she got older, as it helped her to remain
connected with many of her good friends. She loved to go out to lunch with her
friends or family. She was fortunate to be close to her children and
grandchildren to cheer them on in their many endeavors.
Shirley remained closely attached to her hometown of Clarion throughout her life
and traveled there many times over the years. Her children Peter, John and Amy
fondly recalled family driving trips to Clarion where Grandpa Jack would fire up
his 1927 Ford Model T and put the three kids in the car for a drive around town
to announce the arrival of Jack and Caroline's grandchildren.
Shirley is survived by her son John Baker (Julie), daughter Amy Paton (Ian), and
grandchildren Macauley Baker, Cole Baker, Emily Paton and William Paton. She was
preceded in death by her son Peter and parents Jack and Caroline.
We invite you to share a memory with Shirley's family.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to National Jewish Health in
Denver, Colorado.